THE PROBLEM MEN FACE
Most men going through separation will tell you the same thing, they feel like no one truly understands their pain.
Divorce isn’t just a legal event, it’s an unravelling of your life. The emotional overwhelm, communicating with your co-parent, being a stable and present single dad...all while managing your career, legal proceedings and custody transfers. It’s one of the hardest transitions you’ll ever face.
Men are far less likely to seek help when experiencing emotional distress, with many men carrying a deep sense of inadequacy and shame in reaching out, seeing it as an absolute last resort. They often ask “What’s it going to cost me, financially and emotionally?”
The real question is, what’s it going to cost them if they don’t?
THE FACTS
Relationship breakdown is the highest risk factor for suicide amongst men, and yet male-specific divorce support is hard to find. Statistics show that 50% of men who die by suicide have had contact with mental health services in the 12 months before their death. Men are seeking help but the help they’re finding isn’t resonating, and too many of them are slipping through the cracks.
WHY I DO THIS WORK
This was my experience. When I was going through my separation I struggled to find another man who had both lived it and had the training to guide me. I found mental health professionals who hadn’t been through it themselves, which often felt like having a football coach who knew the rules but had never played a game. Or I found men who had been through it, but lacked the skills to support me. I wanted to talk to a man who had both, but he didn’t exist.
So I decided to become the man that I needed back then.
WHY MEN WORK WITH ME
I bring both lived experience and professional training.
Having raised my three kids solo through my own divorce I understand firsthand the emotional toll and practical challenges men face, and how to guide them through the process so they don’t lose themselves.
When men feel heard and seen by someone who's been there, who gets it, the walls come down. They stop feeling like they’re walking the path alone, and they feel safe to reach out and get the help they desperately need.
This is the power of professional peer-led support.
THE FACTS
Relationship breakdown is the highest risk factor for suicide amongst men, and yet male-specific divorce support is hard to find. Statistics show that 50% of men who die by suicide have had contact with mental health services in the 12 months before their death. Men are seeking help, but the help they’re finding isn’t resonating and too many of them are slipping through the cracks.
WHY I DO THIS WORK
This was my experience. When I was going through my separation I struggled to find another man who had both lived it and had the training to guide me. I found mental health professionals who hadn’t been through it themselves, which often felt like having a football coach who knew the rules but had never played a game. Or, I found men who had been through it but lacked the skills to support me. I wanted to talk to a man who had both, but he didn’t exist.
So I decided to become the man that I needed back then.
WHY MEN WORK WITH ME
I bring both lived experience and professional training. I'm a single-dad, an Australian based certified Divorce Coach, and one of the only coaches in the world working exclusively with men who are struggling to cope with the emotional challenges of separation, divorce & parental alienation.
Having raised my three kids solo through my own divorce and working alongside many other men on their divorce journey, I understand firsthand the emotional toll and practical challenges men face, and how to guide them through the process so they don’t lose themselves, or their kids.
THE PROBLEM MEN FACE
Most men going through separation will tell you the same thing, they feel like no one truly understands their pain.
Divorce isn’t just a legal event, it’s an unravelling of your life. The emotional overwhelm, communicating with your co-parent, being a stable and present single dad...all while managing your career, legal proceedings and custody transfers. It’s one of the hardest transitions you’ll ever face.
Men are far less likely to seek help when experiencing emotional distress, with many men carrying a deep sense of inadequacy and shame in reaching out, seeing it as an absolute last resort. They often ask “What’s it going to cost me, financially and emotionally?”
The real question is, what’s it going to cost them if they don’t?
Before working with Matt, I was drowning in stress. His coaching helped me set up a clear plan and communicate better with my ex. Now, I actually feel in control.
Andrew
HOW I HELP
I'm an Australian based Certified Divorce Coach, and one of the few coaches in the world working exclusively with men who are struggling to cope with the emotional challenges of separation, divorce & parental alienation.
I focus on the human side of divorce, not the legal side. Guiding men through the fear, grief, loss, and heartbreak of separation by providing a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space where they can talk openly with another man who understands, and find a way forward with clarity.
My approach is child-centred, future-focused, and action-oriented. It’s grounded in practical problem solving and self-awareness, empowering men to break through inertia, take action, and change their situation with direction and purpose.
My mission is simple:
To support men from Separation to Transformation. Even if they weren’t the ones who chose this path.
how i help
When men feel heard and seen by someone who's been there, who gets it, the walls come down. They stop feeling like they’re walking the path alone, and they feel safe to reach out and get the help they desperately need.
This is the power of professional peer-led support.
I focus on the human side of divorce, not the legal side. Guiding men through the fear, grief, loss, and heartbreak of separation by providing a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space where they can talk openly with another man who understands, and find a way forward with clarity.
My approach is child-centred, future-focused, and action-oriented. It’s grounded in practical problem solving and self-awareness, empowering men to break through inertia, take action, and change their situation with direction and purpose.
My mission is simple:
To support men from Separation to Transformation. Even if they weren’t the ones who chose this path.
HOW IT WORKS
Whether you're just starting the separation process, deep in it, or struggling to move forward after everything's settled, we'll create a flexible plan that gets you moving forward and looking to the future with hope again.
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Free 15-Minute Clarity Call - A no obligation call to discuss your situation and map out a path.
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Individual Sessions - Book single Zoom sessions as required. Or, if you prefer phone calls simply schedule a call.
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Pricing Packages - Discounts available if you need ongoing support.
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Free Resources - Tools to assist you through every stage of the process.
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Ongoing Guidance - Continued support as you move forward in life and enter future relationships.
Matt’s guidance gave me clarity, strength, and real personal growth. His advice was exactly what I needed, and he’s truly talented in this role.
BRAD
Matt helped me stop making emotional mistakes that were costing me time and energy. I finally feel like I'm moving forward instead of stuck.
RICHARD
THE RESULTS
INITIAL ASSESSMENT
You'll identify where you are in your journey and create a clear roadmap forward.
STABILIZATION PHASE
You'll get your emotional foundation solid so you can make good decisions during a chaotic time.
STRATEGY DEVELOPMENT
You'll build practical frameworks for communication, co-parenting, and life management.
IMPLEMENTATION SUPPORT
You'll put your new strategies into practice with ongoing guidance and course corrections.
TRANSFORMATION INTEGRATION
You'll solidify your new life patterns and continue growing beyond the separation.
Pricing & BOOKINGS
All 1:1 coaching sessions are 60 minutes in duration, delivered via phone call or Zoom, and are confidential and not recorded.
Once payment is received you'll get a link to book your first session, and you can secure your preferred time and day.
Explore pricing options below and book a session:
Not sure which option is right for you?
Book a free 15-minute Clarity Call to talk through your situation.
